In the majority of churches, ordained ministers are styled "The Reverend"

 In the majority of churches, ordained ministers are styled "The Reverend". However, as stated above, some are styled "Pastor" and others do not use any religious style or form of address, and are addressed as any other person, e.g. as Mr, Ms, Miss, Mrs or by name.Or call you by your first name. It’s always the old guys who wanna call me by my first name (either look it up online or read it off my badge). “It’s Dr Thicket, sir.” And I never assume I can call patients by their first names. Respect: give it, demand it.

I started, years ago, addressing all women I deal with professionally (trial lawyer) as "Ms." regardless of status. It's the best analog to "mr." That is, unless the person I'm addressing has a doctorate then it's "dr." unless they tell me different. we have and all who present male get that. Why is your marital status relevant to whatever interaction we are having? It's not and neither is mine.